(and I think you know who you are.)
Please choose one of the following to sum up what I am to procure from your attitude towards our friendship.
Are you telling me...
A. "I simply don't care for you, or to be friends with you or your family."
B. "I think we have an obstacle from the past in our relationship that I just cannot or do not want to get past."
C. "I am basically just a selfish and flaky friend, so deal with it."
D. All of the above.